Navigating Social Anxiety in Children: Helping Them Thrive with Professional Support
Navigating social anxiety in children can be a daunting task, made more complex by the fact that it’s hard to recognize if your child is struggling. As parents, we are often left feeling helpless as we try different things without success. However, with the right social anxiety therapist, you can learn how to improve your child’s social skills so they can thrive both emotionally and socially. In this blog post, we will discuss what parents need to know about helping their children manage social anxiety disorder and develop positive coping strategies for living with social phobia.
What Is Social Anxiety in Children?
Social anxiety is a common type of anxiety that is seen in children. It is sometimes referred to as social phobia and is characterized by an intense fear or discomfort in social situations.
Children with social anxiety may feel anxious or embarrassed when they are in situations where they have to interact with others, such as talking in front of a group or meeting new people. They may avoid social situations altogether or they may endure them with intense feelings of anxiety.
Signs and Symptoms of Social Anxiety in Children
Social anxiety disorder in children can have a significant impact on their daily life. It mainly causes issues with social skills in children, but can also present the following symptoms:
- Sweaty palms, muscle tension, and a racing heartbeat
- Lack of eye contact, withdrawal from social situations, and an inability to speak in front of others
- Low self-esteem, excessive worrying about what others think, and intense fear of criticism or rejection
Causes of Social Anxiety in Children
Some causes of social anxiety in children include:
- Genetics (e.g., a family history of anxiety disorders)
- Parenting styles (e.g., overprotective or critical parents)
- Social rejection or bullying, which can create negative associations with social situations
- Traumatic events
- Exposure to social media, which can perpetuate feelings of social inadequacy and low self-esteem
The Importance of Early Intervention for Social Anxiety
If left untreated, social anxiety can have long-term negative effects on a child’s self-esteem, academic performance, and relationships. As they grow up, children who suffer from social anxiety may become afraid of participating in class, avoid group activities, and struggle to make lasting friendships. This lack of social connection can lead to feelings of isolation, loneliness, and depression.
Addressing social anxiety in its early stages is crucial to prevent it from becoming a significant issue in the child’s future. Early intervention from child therapists can provide children with the support and skills necessary to overcome their social anxiety and thrive in their personal and academic lives.
Professional Support for Social Anxiety in Children
If you suspect your child may have social anxiety disorder, there are different types of professional support available to help them cope, such as:
- Play and Art Therapy: This is a creative and engaging method to help children express themselves and understand their emotions.
- Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (CBT): A well-proven method that helps children identify their anxious thoughts and replace them with constructive ones, cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) for social anxiety is one of the more popular therapy methods used by therapists for teens and children.
- Support Groups: The groups can provide children with a community where they can share their experiences with others who understand their struggles.
See How Family Matters Centre Can Support Your Child with Social Anxiety
At Family Matters Centre, our team of experienced child therapists is dedicated to helping children who are struggling with social anxiety build the skills they need to thrive. Through counselling and group therapies, we can help your child or teen improve their social skills so that they feel confident in a variety of settings.
If you’re looking for child counselling in the Burlington, Hamilton, or Oakville area, call us today at (905) 466-8023 or fill out our contact form to request an appointment.
by Shari Markovich
Shari is a Child Therapist who has worked with children and adolescents for more than 20 years. She uses a variety of counselling modalities, including Theraplay®, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), and Family Systems. She is motivated to work with children and parents so families can function in healthy and supportive ways.